Don't run from the pain, go towards it.

So I just recently got out of a long relationship..and for the most part I blamed myself...although a relationship takes 2 people. It's a give take situation..but it possibly couldn't be JUST my fault? It's cause and effect type of shit.


So I decided to stop thinking about WHAT I was doing wrong..and started to look at it why DID I do the things I did...

so I came up with a "List" of ways you can make your relationship last a little longer.
which are TOTALLY simple...

starting with...

1. Give her attention/affection.

DOESN'T have to be all the time..but make the effort especially when she least expects it. we hate being deprived especially when we need it the most.

2. TAKE the blame for some things.

Don't put all the blame on her..it's a lot to have on your shoulders...Trust.

3. Don't talk down..even if you if you don't mean to sometimes.
It's always hard for somebody to be told HOW bad they are..and how they need to change.

4. Don't ignore her/him when your mad.

Let her/him know what's going on with you..it sends mixed signals...when were being ignored "all news is bad news"...that's where I messed up..or shall I say HE messed up?

5. Don't walk/leave her/him when they need you the most.

although it's hard to help somebody out..and you might have to take TIME out of your day..do it.
because it's hard for someone to be alone when the ONLY person they want..doesn't want to be around. STICK around and talk..make them feel loved even if you don't want too.

ANYWHO went off on a little vent session right there if you couldn't tell lmao.



This is my anthem for a while haha.
lawd Will.I.am is a musical fucking GENIUS.

I hate when blogs are all font. so I'll post some pickchas.


I cut my hair at the beginning of june..so my hair has grown about a good inch since than. =]

which is good progress right?


it's going through this "awkward" stage...but it's GROWING so I am fine LOL.

I suggest to ladies who want to cut your hair...DON'T DO IT..
it might be cute...but the growing process is a bitch

and TRUST me..you will miss your long locks.



*tears up and sniffles*


That's all for now.